Helping complex and sensitive brains feel more at home — in the world and in themselves.

Brain training and gentle nervous system care for neurodivergent families, trauma, anxiety, depression, addiction, and post-concussion support.

I bring together lived experience, clinical expertise, and deep nervous system wisdom to offer gentle, effective support through NeurOptimal and more. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, trauma, brain injury, neurodivergence—or simply seeking more calm—you’ll be in experienced, compassionate hands here.

Hi, I’m Carol Ann Brayley, MSW, RSW, SEP - founder of NeuroNest Wellness and a long-time believer in gentle, brain-based support that meets people where they are.

I’ve worked as a clinical social worker for over 30 years, specializing in nervous system regulation and trauma healing. Along the way, I’ve trained in a range of approaches—including NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback, Somatic Experiencing, EMDR, and Brainspotting. I also offer the Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP), Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP) and iLs Focus, though NeurOptimal is at the heart of this site - and one of my favorite ways to support people from the comfort of home.

People seek out NeurOptimal for all kinds of reasons—chronic anxiety, emotional overwhelm, post-concussion symptoms, sleep struggles, trauma recovery, ADHD, autism related concerns, and more. What makes my practice unique is that I’ve lived many of those experiences myself. I’m neurodivergent, have a history of complex trauma, and have personal experience with brain injury and post-concussion syndrome. I understand the toll these challenges can take—and I also know how powerful it is when something finally begins to help.

Although NeurOptimal is designed to be incredibly gentle, it’s important to know that a small number of people - especially those with more sensitive or complex nervous systems - can experience temporary discomfort or dysregulation early on. That’s where working with me makes a big difference.

Unlike most NeurOptimal rental providers, I don’t just ship you a system and wish you luck. I have an extensive clinical background and am internationally recognized as a nervous system specialist. That means I know how to spot when things need a slight adjustment - and I can offer grounded, compassionate guidance to help you (or your child) move through any challenges gently and efficiently.

That’s why I created NeuroNest Wellness: to offer calm, accessible, high-quality support to individuals and families - especially those who’ve tried everything else and still haven’t found something that feels like a fit. Whether you’re here for NeurOptimal rentals or curious about other options I offer, I’m so glad you found your way here.

When accessing NeurOptimal through me, you’re not just renting a system - you’re receiving care and expertise from someone who truly understands how sensitive, brilliant, and complex the nervous system can be. My approach is personalized, intuitive, and grounded in years of experience walking alongside people as they rediscover ease, clarity, and resilience.

Simple, gentle, and powerful. NeurOptimal helps your brain do what it does best - adjust, restore, and thrive - while you rest, relax, or even scroll your phone. Support for all ages and all kinds of brains.

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đź§  NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback with Carol Ann

Gentle brain training to help you feel more like yourself - naturally.

If you’re navigating anxiety, overwhelm, tic disorders, burnout, brain fog, concussion symptoms, trauma, or sensory sensitivities—or if your child is—you’re not alone. And you don’t have to “push through” or “figure it out” on your own.

NeurOptimal® is a non-invasive, intuitive form of neurofeedback that helps the brain become more flexible, calm, and resilient—without needing any diagnosis, brain mapping, or complicated protocols. It’s safe, easy, and designed to meet your system exactly where it is.

Unlike other forms of neurofeedback, NeurOptimal doesn’t “train” your brain to behave in a certain way. Nothing is being done to your brain—your brain is simply receiving real-time feedback about its own activity, which helps it naturally reorganize and regulate itself in the way it knows how.

🌿 So, how does it work?

During a session, five small sensors are gently placed on your scalp and ears. You’ll listen to music—or a children’s show if that’s more your speed—through a tablet. As the system monitors brain activity, it delivers subtle interruptions (like a brief pause or “skip” in the sound) when it detects a shift in your brain’s patterns. That moment of feedback creates a kind of mirror for the brain.

Imagine doing yoga for years without ever seeing yourself in a mirror—and then one day, suddenly having one appear. You might notice your downward dog’s a little off. That awareness alone helps you begin to adjust.

That’s what NeurOptimal does: it helps the brain see itself, so it can choose to function more smoothly.

And because your brain is always in charge, it will never push itself faster than it’s ready to go. That’s why side effects are extremely rare—and why this system is even used with people in comas, or with sleeping children who wouldn’t tolerate traditional neurofeedback.

đź’« Real-life impact

NeurOptimal is like a gym for your brain. As your brain begins to regulate itself more efficiently, improvements may be noticed in areas like:

     •     Sleep
     •     Mood and emotional regulation
     •     Focus and executive functioning
     •     Sensory sensitivity
     •     Cognitive clarity and memory
     •     Energy levels and motivation
     •     Headaches, including migraines
     •     Digestion, immune function, and more

You can do whatever you like during a session—nap, read, scroll on your phone, answer emails, or just rest.

Many parents find that homework time becomes easier, meltdowns decrease, and family life begins to feel more connected and harmonious. (And yes, I often recommend parents do sessions too—brains “synch up,” and the whole home benefits.)

✨ Why work with me?

There are many people offering NeurOptimal rentals—but most don’t have a clinical background, and even fewer have deep specialization in nervous system regulation.

I’ve worked as a clinical social worker for over 30 years, supporting sensitive and complex individuals and families. I’m also neurodivergent myself and have personal experience with ADHD, fibromyalgia, chronic insomnia, trauma, anxiety, sound sensitivities, MTHFR, and brain injury/post-concussion syndrome. In my family there is also tic disorders, autism, selective mutism, Ehler Danlos syndrome and more.  This work isn’t just professional for me—it’s personal. I know what it’s like to need something that’s truly gentle.

In many cases, NeurOpitmal with me is covered under extended health plans that cover social workers in Ontario.  I also have discounts available.  Please enquire for details. 

If any challenges arise during your use of the system, I can offer nervous system based simple, effective strategies to help you get back on track—quickly and gently.

📦 Rental Packages

All rentals include unlimited sessions for the rental period. You are welcome to share sessions with family members. (Highly recommended if you’re supporting a child!)

     •     2 Weeks – $650
     •     4 Weeks – $1,150
     •     8 Weeks – $1,800
     •     12 Weeks – $2,400

Discounts and free delivery available in many situations - please reach out for details.

If you choose to purchase a NeurOptimal system after renting, I’ll rebate up to $150 of your rental fee. Be sure to ask me how to access this before purchasing.

đź’¬ In-person sessions (Ontario only)

     •     $180 per session

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If you'd like to check discount and delivery options, check system availability, or reserve a system, please contact me.

Not sure where to start? I am happy to help you choose the approach — whether SSP, RRP, iLs, or NeurOptimal® — that best fits your system. Some tools work beautifully on their own, while others may offer deeper benefit when layered gently over time. Together, we’ll find the right fit for you.

Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP)

Developed by Dr. Stephen Porges, SSP is a gentle, music-based program that helps calm the nervous system and create a deeper sense of safety. Especially helpful for those who feel stuck in fight, flight, or freeze, it can support emotional regulation, connection, and resilience. I offers SSP internationally with advanced specialization in highly sensitive and complex individuals. When done before neurofeedback, SSP may help the brain respond more effectively and efficiently. SSP is for all ages!

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iLs Focus System

The iLs Focus Program combines music, movement, and activities to support brain and body integration. It’s great for all kinds of neurological concerns—including trauma, anxiety, sensory challenges, learning differences, and developmental delays. Suitable for children and adults, iLs is done at home and is especially helpful for supporting regulation, emotional resilience, and overall functioning.

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Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP)

Created by Dr. Stephen Porges, founder of Polyvagal Theory, RRP is a calming, music-based program that gently supports your nervous system in shifting toward rest, repair, and balance. Many people find it helps with sleep, digestion, and overall ease—especially during times of stress, burnout, or chronic tension. It’s a simple, soothing way to feel more grounded and regulated.

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This is therapy that goes far beyond talk. I blend somatic work, Brainspotting, parts work, and more to help deeply held patterns shift - often where nothing else has worked. Grounded in nervous system wisdom and guided by intuition, real change becomes possible.

🌀 Therapy Services

Whole-person support for healing, growth, and nervous system regulation.

Therapy with me isn’t one-size-fits-all. I draw from a wide range of evidence-based and body-based approaches to help you move toward more clarity, capacity, and connection - at a pace that feels right for you.

Whether you’re navigating trauma, anxiety, neurodivergence, grief, burnout, or a period of growth and expansion, our work together will be collaborative, attuned, and grounded in your lived experience.

I work with adults (18 and up) who are ready to explore healing from a deeper, nervous-system-informed perspective. That might mean starting with emotional regulation or stress, or it might mean diving into identity, attachment, parts work, or intergenerational trauma or other areas that you are ready to shift.

đź§  Modalities We Can Explore Together:

Sessions with me are deeply customized and may draw from a blend of:

     •     Somatic Experiencing (SE)
     •     Brainspotting
     •     EMDR
     •     Parts Work (including IFS-informed and ego-state work)
     •     ACT (Acceptance & Commitment Therapy)
     •     Mindfulness-based and body-based approaches
     •     Polyvagal Theory-informed care

When appropriate, I may also weave in Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP) or the Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP) as part of your overall therapeutic process. For clients working with me regularly and consistently, these modalities can sometimes be added at no additional cost as part of our ongoing work.

🌿 What therapy looks like with me:

     •     Sessions are online - but not distant. Just because we’re meeting virtually doesn’t mean I’m not fully present. I’ll be right there with you - attuned, grounded, and deeply engaged in your process. Many clients are surprised by how intimate and connected online sessions can feel.
     •     We go at your pace. I meet you where you are, whether you’re in crisis, in transition, or simply feeling curious about what more is possible.
     •     We listen to your body. Nervous system cues matter. I’ll help you learn to recognize what safety and dysregulation feel like in your body—and what your system needs to return to balance.
     •     We work collaboratively - with room for intuition. You’re the expert on your own experience. I bring not only decades of clinical training but also deep intuitive insight into what may be unfolding beneath the surface. I often sense what’s ready to shift or where we’re being gently invited to explore next.
     •     We hold the big picture. This isn’t just about symptom relief—it’s about creating the conditions for long-term change, grounded safety, and greater freedom in your body, mind, and life.

🪶 Therapy with me is for you if:
     •     You’re neurodivergent and want support from someone who gets it
     •     You’ve done talk therapy but want something deeper or more body-aware
     •     You feel stuck in trauma patterns or emotional reactivity
     •     You’ve experienced dissociation, shutdown, or burnout
     •     You want to explore your identity, inner parts, or beliefs in a safe space
     •     You’re healing from medical trauma, grief, chronic stress, or a high-demand life
     •     Or… things are going okay, but you know something more is possible

đź§ľ Fees & Coverage

Sessions are offered online and are typically 60 minutes.  My fee is $200 per hour.

My services are covered under extended health plans that include registered social workers (MSW, RSW) in Ontario. Please check with your provider.

đź’¬ Ready to get started?

If you’re curious about therapy but unsure where to begin, that’s okay. You don’t have to have it all figured out. Just reach out - we can talk about what you’re looking for, and whether working together feels like the right fit.

If you are already feeling ready to start, please feel free to book yourself in using my online scheduler.  



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When words aren’t enough, Brainspotting helps your body release what it’s been holding. Gentle, powerful, and often more effective than EMDR — especially for sensitive, overwhelmed, or neurodivergent nervous systems.

Brainspotting

When talk therapy hasn’t been enough — Brainspotting can help access what words alone can’t reach.

Brainspotting is a powerful, brain-body-based therapy that helps uncover and release trauma, anxiety, and emotional blocks that may be held deep in the nervous system. It allows us to go beyond insight, gently accessing the root of what’s been stuck — even when you don’t know exactly what that is.

Developed by Dr. David Grand, Brainspotting is based on the idea that “where you look affects how you feel.” By finding a specific eye position that connects with a relevant spot in the brain, we can bring buried experiences into awareness, supporting the body in releasing them in a way that is both profound and often surprisingly gentle.

How it works


In a Brainspotting session, we follow the cues of your body and nervous system — not a script.

Using a combination of focused attention, somatic attunement, and mindful presence, we locate a “brainspot” connected to the issue we’re working on. This may be something you’re consciously aware of (like anxiety, overwhelm, or a traumatic memory), or something more vague (a feeling of being stuck, disconnected, or on edge for no clear reason).

As we stay with that spot and remain curious together, your nervous system begins to process in the background. There’s no need to re-tell or re-live traumatic events. Your body knows what to do when it feels safe enough to begin.

What Brainspotting can support

Brainspotting can be especially helpful for:
     •     Complex trauma and developmental trauma
     •     Anxiety, panic, or chronic dysregulation
     •     Burnout or compassion fatigue
     •     Grief and loss
     •     Physical symptoms with an emotional component (e.g., pain, tension, migraines)
     •     Feeling stuck despite years of other therapy
     •     Creative blocks or performance anxiety
     •     Dissociation or a sense of being disconnected from your body or emotions

Gentle, attuned support — customized to you

I often integrate Brainspotting with other somatic approaches like Somatic Experiencing, SSP, and RRP, depending on your unique needs and nervous system. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach — we’ll follow your body’s wisdom and move at a pace that feels right.

Sessions are online, but don’t let that fool you — this work is deeply attuned and connected.

You don’t have to go it alone. I’ll be right there with you.

Curious if Brainspotting might help?


Whether you’re navigating trauma, anxiety, or just know something needs to shift, Brainspotting may help you find a way forward — even if you’ve tried everything else.

Sessions are $200. 

Schedule an intake session or contact me to learn more.

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Somatic Experiencing helps your body release what it’s been holding - gently, safely, and at your pace. Ideal for trauma, anxiety, and chronic overwhelm, especially in sensitive or neurodivergent nervous systems. Sessions are covered under extended health plans that cover social workers in Ontario.

Somatic Experiencing 

When your nervous system is stuck in survival mode, it takes more than insight to feel better.
Somatic Experiencing® (SE) is a gentle, body-based therapy that helps release stored stress, trauma, and overwhelm — not by analyzing it, but by listening to the body itself.

At NeuroNest, we offer Somatic Experiencing for adults who are ready for real, lasting change. Whether you’re living with anxiety, shutdown, chronic stress, or the weight of past experiences, SE helps your system find its way back to balance - especially when talk therapy hasn’t been enough.

What Is Somatic Experiencing?

Developed by Dr. Peter Levine, Somatic Experiencing is rooted in neuroscience and the body’s natural ability to heal from trauma. When something overwhelming happens, the body often doesn’t get the chance to complete its natural response. That energy gets stuck - and we stay in patterns of fight, flight, freeze, or collapse, long after the event is over.

SE gently helps the nervous system complete those cycles, unwind stuck survival energy, and restore a sense of safety, connection, and calm.

Why SE is So Much Better Than Talk Therapy Alone

Talk therapy can bring insight and understanding - but insight alone doesn’t always shift the deep wiring of the nervous system. SE works at the level where trauma actually lives: in the body, the sensations, and the survival instincts that have been trying to keep you safe.  We can incorporate SE together with talk therapy, when desired.  For those who don't want to talk about it?  With Somatic Experiencing, Brainspotting, NeurOptimal and similar approaches, we can access incredibly deep healing, without ever telling the story.

It’s especially helpful when you:
     •     Feel stuck, frozen, or shut down
     •     Have tried therapy but haven’t felt real change
     •     Struggle with anxiety, chronic stress, or nervous system dysregulation
     •     Are neurodivergent or highly sensitive and overwhelmed by traditional approaches
     •     Experience dissociation, tension, or body-based symptoms with no clear medical cause

Layered Support: Somatic Experiencing + NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback

At NeuroNest, Somatic Experiencing can be layered with NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback, offering a powerful, integrative approach to healing.

Many clients begin with NeurOptimal to support regulation, calm the system, and build resilience. As the nervous system becomes more flexible, SE can then help process and release deeper held trauma, stress, or stuck patterns. For others, SE and neurofeedback may be woven together more fluidly.  We can incorporate Brainspotting too, to laser in on very specfic concerns. 

This combination supports both bottom-up healing (through SE) and real-time brain training (through NeurOptimal®) — ideal for sensitive, neurodivergent, or complex nervous systems that need gentle and effective care.

What Somatic Experiencing Sessions Are Like

SE sessions are deeply attuned, paced to your system, and tailored to what feels safe and right for you. You don’t need to relive trauma or even talk about it. Instead, we follow what your body is already trying to show us - and support your system in gently completing what it couldn’t at the time.

Sessions can include:
     •     Guided tracking of body sensations
     •     Support with grounding and regulation
     •     Gentle exploration of patterns or symptoms
     •     Integration with NeurOptimal®, SSP, RRP, or Brainspotting when appropriate
     •     Deep respect for your lived experience, intuition, and needs

Somatic Experiencing Online Sessions

Many clients find it easier to settle and go deeper when working from home - especially those who are neurodivergent or highly sensitive. Despite being virtual, sessions are interactive, intuitive, and fully present.

Ready to Support Your Nervous System in a Whole New Way?


Somatic Experiencing can help you reconnect with your body, calm your system, and begin to feel safe again — gently and without pressure. And when combined with NeurOptimal®, the results can be even more powerful.

Sessions are $200 and available online. 

👉 Book an free consultation or contact me to learn more.



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Your Questions, Answered (Mostly!) This FAQ was written before the Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP) existed—so you won’t find it here just yet. I’m in the process of updating everything to reflect what’s now possible. Thanks for your patience as this page evolves!

Where should I begin?

In the vast majority of situations, the best place to begin is with SSP.

By very rapidly shifting physiology, SSP sets a better platform for any other approach to work more effectively and more efficiently, thus saving both money and time.

However, there are a few caveats:

  • SSP can initially for some people cause the nervous system to become more sensitive and more reactive.  Basically, at the start, things may become worse rather than better.  For this reason, we do not begin SSP when someone is already at the limit of what they feel they can deal with.
  • With SSP, in order for the process to be both as smooth as possible and as effective as possible, it is important to have someone who is a support or at least neutral, to be there with you while you listen.
  • SSP is likely to be much more tumultuous and potentially less likely to be effective when someone is living with someone who is toxic, hurtful ,or angry towards them, consistently.
For these reasons, sometimes I may suggest someone begin with neurofeedback or the "Calming" program on the Focus System instead of, or prior to beginning SSP

In situations where there is someone in the home that tends to "rock the boat" for the individual - being more angry or stressed or difficult - I often will suggest that the family, if willing, all begin with neurofeedback and share the sessions so that everyone at home can be feeling better and more peaceful before beginning SSP.

Similarly, it may be that the family share some or part of a course of Focus System programs (likely the "calming" programs) to help everyone in the home become better regulated and more able to support the SSP process.

SSP is best followed by another approach, either Focus or Neurofeedback or, potentially one and then the other. Or, SSP can be followed with occupational therapy when relevant for the individual or psychotherapy, preferably a nervous system based approach to psychotherapy and/or one that involves rapid and gentle trauma processing.



Somatic experiencing can be a wonderful place to start.  If you are not already working with an SE therapist and prefer to work individually, you can check here to find an SE therapist in your area.

I do offer online somatic experiencing skills groups.  While anyone is welcome to attend them, my focus currently is to offer them for people who are preparing to do SSP, currently doing SSP, or have done SSP and want to continue to strengthen their resiliency.  

Whether you are doing (or have done) SSP with myself or another SSP practitioner, you are welcome to attend my groups. 

In some cases we may choose to begin by using SSP Connect in order to ideally bring more regulation into the nervous system prior to starting SSP Core.

I may also suggest NeurOptimal neurofeedback as a method to use prior to beginning SSP Core, to bring more regulation on board.

In situations where there is a great deal of stress in the home, and/or someone in the home that tends to "rock the boat" for the individual - being angry or stressed or difficult - I often will suggest that as much of the family as possible, begin with a NeurOptimal rental system for home use and share the sessions so that everyone at home can, ideally, be feeling better and even a little more harmonious, which then sets a better platform from which to do SSP.

NeurOptimal is also one of the approaches I highly recommend following SSP with.  

If you are within Canada I have NeurOptimal rental systems available for home use.  Renting NeurOptimal is one of the most cost effective ways of doing neurofeedback.  If you are in the US or the UK, I have someone I can refer you to to access a NeurOptimal home rental system.

The iLs Focus System - another remarkably effective system that I highly recommend following SSP with - also can be used prior to beginning SSP, in order to settle the nervous system and bring more regulation on board.

As with NeurOptimal, use of the Focus System programs can be used to increase resilience in the individuals nervous system as well as potentially the system being shared among family members to help everyone in the home become better regulated and more able to support the SSP process.

Do the changes created with these systems last over time?

In most cases, yes, with a few caveats:

  • Someone with very entrenched and chronic concerns - such as complex trauma or trauma experienced early in life, autism spectrum disorders, chemical sensitivities, and/or very complex presentation - are likely to need more than one round of SSP and/or Focus,  and are more likely to benefit from ongoing or periodic revisiting of neurofeedback.  This could look like renting a neurofeedback system once per year, or repeating SSP every three months, or purchasing ones own neurofeedback or Focus system so that one can access it intermittently, as needed.
  • Our lives do not stay constant.  So we can work on ourselves and get our nervous system really well regulated, and then go through a traumatic event or other types of extreme stress.  In these cases it is likely that one would just need a "booster" of SSP, Focus and/or neurofeedback, rather than completely starting over.  With neurofeedback, for example,  if one had initially needed 30 sessions to reach one's goals, it may be that a few sessions are all that is needed to feel back on track, rather than doing another 30.
  • Some shifts may be age related.  With neurofeedback, for example, a fairly common experience is to have one's eyesight improve.  If age related eyesight deterioration improves with NeurOptimal, as one continues to age, deterioration is going to resume at some point.  While brain training is wonderful, it isn't magic.  :)
  • Many people choose to repeat SSP, Focus, or neurofeedback not because they lost the gains they had made, but because they found it so transformative that they can't wait to see what things will irmprove on a subsequent round.  For myself ,for example, with neurofeedback, initially my sleep and energy levels and mood improved. With further training, I hewas completely eliminated, and I noticed I became much more (calmly and effortlessly) assertive with others and more able to set boundaries.  On my second round of SSP, I didn't choose the best timing and did it right before moving and am not aware of experiencing improvement that round as I was just too stressed to be able to respond well to SSP.  However,r on my third round of SSP my chronic pain improved - going from a 7 out of 10, down to a 0 or 1 out of 10.  It is fine to repeat SSP once every three months and now that I am about 5 month post the third round of SSP I am starting to notice pain levels creeping back in at about a 3 or 4 out of 10, which tells me it is time to repeat SSP.

How long will it take to see results?

The answer to this is "it depends".  It is a little like asking how many times do we need to go to the gym to reach our fitness goals, or how long will it take for my child to be toilet trained, or to learn to ride a bike, etc...

Every brain is different so we can never be sure what any one individual's experience is going to look like, regardless of the system being used.

With neurofeedback, while some people have a dramatic response to just one or a few sessions, it is more typical that improvements show up gradually and then cumulate over time. It is fairly typical when I hook someone up for a second or third neurofeedback session and ask them what changes they are noticing that they will say "I think X issue is improving but maybe it was just a better week than usual". However, usually by a 4th or 5th neurofeedback session - and sometimes even after the very first session - people are certain that are seeing a change because some situation has come up that usually would have been really difficult and they found it just rolled off of them.  

NeurOptimal neurofeedback is not considered a treatment or a therapy as the brain is in charge with this system.  This means there is a much lower risk of side effects than with some other forms of neurofeedback but, it also means that we can not control where improvements show up first.  It may be that someone has a dramatic improvement right from a first or second session of neurofeedback - I have seen responses like dramatically improved eyesight or dramatically improved sleep or energy levels after just one or two sessions - but that it takes several more sessions for the issue that first motivated someone to access neurofeedback (depression, anxiety, etc...) to show improvement.  If someone has done SSP prior to doing Neurofeedback they are likely to see improvements sooner and/or more dramatically, in most cases.


With NeurOptimal as long as there is a change in the duration, intensity or frequency of symptoms in some area of life, we know that the brain is responding and that we are on the right track and it is just a matter of time before improvements show up in the desired areas.

With SSP there are people who notice an obvious improvement within the first 10 minutes of listening, and there are people who aren't aware of changes until a few weeks after they complete the SSP process. While there are some people who don't show an obvious response to a first round of SSP that is quite rare, and most of those individuals will show improvement on a subsequent around should they choose to repeat SSP. It takes 2-7 weeks after the SSP process is complete for all of the changes to show up so we don't decide it hasn't worked for someone until we are past the 7 week mark post SSP listening.

With Focus, it may depend upon how often people are using Focus. Someone who is using it for five hours per week for an hour each time and doing all of the activities is likely to see a shift much sooner than someone who is using it just three hours per week. Most people may start to see improvement with Focus within a couple of weeks of beginning, though they may be quite subtle at first.  Gains tend to become more often after about 4-6 months.   If someone has done SSP prior to doing Focus they are likely to see improvements faster and in some cases, much faster and more dramatically - but every nervous system is different.  

Are there any contraindications to using these systems?

With NeurOptimal neurofeedback, I am not aware of any contraindications to using this system. While there are people who initially may have an uptick in agitation or anxiety when they first begin brain training, this type of response is relatively rare and is likely to settle fairly quickly with appropriate information and the right type of approach:  going to the place of neutral observer and simply being "curious" about this interesting nervous system response, and/or using a weighted blanket during or after neurofeedback sessions, rather than worrying about the response and having anxiety about the anxiety or agitation, which then can become a runaway train.

it is typically fine to use NeurOptimal neurofeedback as soon as possible after a brain injury.  

The vast majority of people find NeurOptimal sessions extremely relaxing, to the point that there are some people who simply can not stay awake during them.

With SSP, SSP should not be used by those with seizure disorders unless they have been seizure free for at least one year prior to beginning SSP and after consulting with their neurologist.   

SSP should not be used during the acute stage post concussion and not without medical consultation - which I can access at no cost - after recent brain injury.

The Focus System is NOT recommended for those with bipolar depression or seizure disorders.




What can I do during sessions?

NeurOptimal neurofeedback is a passive system  It is not necessary to pay attention during session.  As long as one is hooked up and the sensors stay attached and one can hear the music - preferably as the most dominant sound in the background - it is fine to do whatever you like.  You may use your tablet or phone, have a nap, or read a book.  Many people find that if they do homework or written work during NeurOptimal sessions that the work goes much faster and more easily than usual.

NeurOptimal can be used on people who are in comas. Sometimes parents of young children who may not want to sit still or keep the sensors on will hook their children up while they are in a heavy state of sleep. It is important to stay in the room to watch and be sure the child does not in their sleep become tangled in the sensors and cords both for safety reasons and to ensure the sessions are effective. I also have children's TV shows and movies loaded onto the neurofeedback tablets so that the neurofeedback can be delivered through the audio of those programs, thus being more likely to help a young child stay cooperative and engaged during the process. Though they can also be watching another movie without sound on, or playing games on a tablet with the sound off.

During SSP sessions, it is important that most of your focus be upon actively listening to the music.  So it is important to NOT be on a tablet, phone or any kind of screen during sessions.  No reading or writing during SSP sessions.  If someone falls asleep during an SSP session, they ideally need to go back to where they last remember hearing the music and repeat the portion that they slept through.

It is important that SSP sessions occur with as little background noise as possible, and with a support person present who just need to notice if the person listening is looking at them so that they can response with eye contact and a warm smile and/or affection as comfortable for the individuals.  Connection, contact and support very much increases the effectiveness of SSP as well as helping the process to be easier and more gentle.

During Focus sessions there are different recommended activities to do, outlined in the "playbook" that accompanies the Focus system. The Focus system includes a waist pack so that you can easily move around while listening.  These activities start out as being very simple and the slowly increase in challenge as the individual masters the previous level of activity. The activities are not intense and many of them are fun and feel good to do.  The activities typically take up about 15 minutes of Focus per hour of listening. The remaining 45 hours of listening you are free to sit and relax or do activities as interesest you. For myself when I am doing Focus, I start my day with it and, after doing the 15 minutes or so of Focus playbook activities I get ready for work, knit, or tidy the house.

During Focus and NeurOptimal neurofeedback it is typically fine to do things like colour, knit, play with legos, draw, do sensory activities like a child searching for little toys in a bit of beans or rice, playing with kinetic sand, and so on.  These activities are equally acceptable and potentially even helpful during SSP  as long as the person is still able to keep most of their focus upon actively listening.  So, for example a very experienced knitter may be fine to knit a simple project during SSP but someone knew to knitting who has to think a lot and focus a lot upon the knitting as they do it, it would not be recommended that they knit during SSP.

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Booking & Contact Information

No appointment is needed to access NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback or iLs - just send me an email to inquire about availability and options.

If you’re feeling unsure where to begin, you’re always welcome to email your questions. That’s often the easiest and most sustainable way for me to connect, especially as a neurodivergent introvert.

If you’d prefer to talk things through together, you’re welcome to book a Discovery Call using the scheduler below. It’s a great way to explore whether therapy, SSP, RRP, iLs, Neurofeedback or a combination might be the right starting point.

You can also use the scheduler to book sessions if you’re ready to begin therapy, the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP), or the Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP).

✨ Please note: the scheduler will say “SSP Yoda”—but yes, it’s still me!

You can access my online scheduler here


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Not sure where to start? I’m happy to answer questions by email - it’s the gentlest and most sustainable way for me to connect. If you’d prefer to talk by phone or in an online session, you’re welcome to book a Discovery Call using my scheduler so that we can explore what the best fit may be.